It gets that way sometimes!! Being alone after having been with someone can be so hard...it's like having to go outside in the cold after being in a room with the heater on. The fact that the extra heat was there just makes the outdoors seem a bit colder :/ But it is ok! During this time is when we truly rediscover who we are! We learn ways to make ourselves happy, like you said. Being alone with your thoughts is so scary because it is then that the true you materializes..but it really is a freeing experience :)You won't feel alone forever, but do realize that it isn't a terrible thing!
I agree with Val. That alone time is important to re-familiarize ourselves, with ourselves. It only makes us healthier and better prepared for the next situation. After all the steps we take in life, are meant to get us to the next phase with a whole lot more knowledge taken from situations before it. All necessary for growth. Yep, we do feel some kind of void when exiting a situation, and it's why we shouldn't immediately fill the void out of loneliness because we could be setting ourselves up to repeat history.
Alone time isn't a bad time as a whole. Especially if you do what you said in your poem. Self discovery and loving yourself is a wonderful thing. I am so proud of you. Great poetry. Stop by. Carlus xo God Bless you...
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after being with someone, being alone is never eay...thoughts for you today...
Hope the rain doesn't wash you away! Take care and one more day and it is TGIF!!
It gets that way sometimes!! Being alone after having been with someone can be so hard...it's like having to go outside in the cold after being in a room with the heater on. The fact that the extra heat was there just makes the outdoors seem a bit colder :/ But it is ok! During this time is when we truly rediscover who we are! We learn ways to make ourselves happy, like you said. Being alone with your thoughts is so scary because it is then that the true you materializes..but it really is a freeing experience :)You won't feel alone forever, but do realize that it isn't a terrible thing!
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Beautiful thoughts as usual Jstar!
A lot of people don't appreciate alone time. But being alone is important. We all need to be alone sometimes to allow ourselves to grow.
Great post.
I agree with Val. That alone time is important to re-familiarize ourselves, with ourselves. It only makes us healthier and better prepared for the next situation. After all the steps we take in life, are meant to get us to the next phase with a whole lot more knowledge taken from situations before it. All necessary for growth. Yep, we do feel some kind of void when exiting a situation, and it's why we shouldn't immediately fill the void out of loneliness because we could be setting ourselves up to repeat history.
this touches home.
We all need to take that time alone from time to time.
Alone time isn't a bad time as a whole. Especially if you do what you said in your poem. Self discovery and loving yourself is a wonderful thing. I am so proud of you. Great poetry. Stop by. Carlus xo God Bless you...
me time!!
we all need it.
beautiful words
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